The deadline for solving my Love Life puzzle was Saturday at 23:59. By that time I have received three right answers from four people. You can imagine how easy it was to choose whom to invite for the dinner. ;) There where more people who submitted right answers, but those are close friends for whom I cook regularly already. Believe it or not, I also have received several wrong answers. Out of curiosity and for the sake of gender balance I decided to reward the person who sent in the first wrong answer. I will have to borrow a couple of chairs from my neighbours. :) All the winners can expect an e-mail or a phone call from me next week. All the rest - do solve the puzzle anyway. It will reveal some facts from my love life and who knows, I might decide to reward you somehow anyway. ;)
I had a conversation with a friend today about relationships, sex and cheating. We both agree that you find the best relationships while you are not looking for one. I was just wondering why it’s so easy to get a one-night-stand with someone you don’t know at all. Why would people want to have sex with a total stranger? My friend couldn’t explain this phenomenon. Another question was: if you just have a sex relationship with someone and both of you don’t want to build up anything serious, do you still owe fidelity to your sex partner? My friend said you do. I have to think about it. Another thing I have to think about is: what mix of ingredients makes me jealous in a relationship?
I would like to have a bachata course. Maybe next season. But for now – have a look at this fantastic video! I’ve seen it a couple of years ago on TV, but didn’t catch the name. And today a friend has published it on his Facebook wall. Thank you Yves!
Monday 19 October 2009
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I had a conversation with a friend today about relationships, sex and cheating. We both agree that you find the best relationships while you are not looking for one.
ReplyDeleteIF YOU GO BY THE LAW OF AVERAGES, YES, BUT IT DOESN'T ALWAYS WORK THAT WAY
I was just wondering why it’s so easy to get a one-night-stand with someone you don’t know at all. Why would people want to have sex with a total stranger? My friend couldn’t explain this phenomenon.
NO COMMITMENT, NO RPOMISES, NOT A THING TO WORRRY ABOUT THE NEXT DAY, JUST LUST.
Another question was: if you just have a sex relationship with someone and both of you don’t want to build up anything serious, do you still owe fidelity to your sex partner? My friend said you do. I have to think about it.
IT WOULD DEPEND ON THE KIND OF UNDERSTANDING YOU HAVE WITH THAT PERSON.
Another thing I have to think about is: what mix of ingredients makes me jealous in a relationship?
NONE OF THESE QUESTIONS POSE A PROBLEM TO ME AND THEY SHOULD NOT POSE A PROBLEM TO YOU AS WELL. NOW YOU SEEM TO BE IN A COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP. JEALOUSY HAS NO PART TO PLAY IN IT. IF YOU ARE JEALOUS THEN THERE IS SOMETHING WRONG WITH YOU AND YOU SHOULD ADDRESS RIGHT AWAY BEFORE IT GETS OUT OF HAND.
I am sorry for the posted capital letters but there is no a way to indicate my comments on that post.
Let me know if there is a nice and easy way to type comments .
Sotiris, I have no problem with your capitals, but you might put quotes around my text to distinguish and avoid caps.
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